Support the Love’s Not Color Blind book tour?

Wanna get an early copy of the definitive book on how race and polyamory? Wanna support the voices and stories of people of color in polyamorous communities? Want insight on creating inclusive environments? Kevin Patterson of Poly Role Models is trying to bring the real talk with his upcoming book Love’s Not Color Blind: Race andContinueContinue reading “Support the Love’s Not Color Blind book tour?”

Really No Jealousy? Blog on Psychology Today

  In my most recent Psychology Today blog I use fresh longitudinal data to explore the absence of jealousy and how some people who had never felt it before encounter a situation that triggers jealousy, even after years of being in CNM relationships without jealousy.   https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201711/some-people-truly-don-t-feel-jealousy Image is of three colorful birds sitting onContinueContinue reading “Really No Jealousy? Blog on Psychology Today”

Happy Client Testimonial for Dr. Eli Sheff as Presenter

Over the years I have spoken to the AASECT community of educators, counselors, and therapists in Atlanta several times. Their delightful local leader Natalie Elliot of the Atlanta Counseling Institute has written me a letter of recommendation, see below.   To Whom It May Concern, I would like to enthusiastically endorse Dr. Eli Sheff. SheContinueContinue reading “Happy Client Testimonial for Dr. Eli Sheff as Presenter”

New Psychology Today Blog on Polyamory at Work

In my most recent blog on Psychology Today I explore the reasons why people might to come as polyamorous out at work — or not — the issues it might bring up, and how to deal with them. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201710/polyamory-work      

Continuing Education for Therapists with Dr. Tammy Nelson, Dr. Eli Sheff, Ken Haslam, and Jim Fleckenstein

The wonderful Dr. Tammy Nelson is offering continuing education units for therapists interested in monogamy and non-monogamy. The New Monogamy – Finding Poly, Non-Exclusive and Open Relationships. When It Works and When It Doesn’t.   Your purchase includes…   America’s expert on Redefining Your Monogamy, Dr. Tammy Nelson, as well as: Original Research and FindingsContinueContinue reading “Continuing Education for Therapists with Dr. Tammy Nelson, Dr. Eli Sheff, Ken Haslam, and Jim Fleckenstein”

Let’s Talk Relationships Interviews Dr. Eli Sheff on Rebel Relationships

Dr. Kelly and Chelsea at Let’s Talk Relationships interviewed me for their show and labeled it Rebel Relationships. Check out our conversation on different types of consensual non-monogamy, kinds of love, and dealing with the possible complexities of CNM relationships.

Workshop for Non-Monogamy Mismatch with Dr. Eli Sheff and Curious Fox Presents

When Your Partner Wants Non-Monogamy and You Don’t: A Workshop for People with a (Non)Monogamy Mismatch ⏲ Tuesday September 19 2017 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM EDT  Private address at Myrtle and Troutman, Near the Myrtle-Broadway JMZ, Brooklyn, NY, United States   Get tickets here What do you do when you love someone and they want something very different fromContinueContinue reading “Workshop for Non-Monogamy Mismatch with Dr. Eli Sheff and Curious Fox Presents”

New Psychology Today Blog from Dr. Eli Sheff on Choice in Polyamorous Relationships

  My newest blog on Psychology Today examines the role that choice plays in polyamory and other forms of consensual non-monogamy, focusing on consent, self-responsibility, and mutual reliance. The image is of an abstract white figure leaning down with its hands on its knees and examining a red line on the ground that branches intoContinueContinue reading “New Psychology Today Blog from Dr. Eli Sheff on Choice in Polyamorous Relationships”

Satisfied Relationship Coaching Client Testimonial

  MK, a client who has been coaching with me for a few months, wrote the most lovely client testimonial and gave me permission to post it here:   Dr. Sheff has been an invaluable resource for me as a relationship coach.  She has provided valuable insight and information regarding different relationship and communication structures, andContinueContinue reading “Satisfied Relationship Coaching Client Testimonial”

Dr. Eli Sheff Teams Up with Curious Fox Presents for Two Days in Brooklyn

Curious Fox Presents is bringing me to Brooklyn, NY for two events. The first is Consider This: A Day of Challenging the Status Quo in Sex and Relationships with me, Tikva Wolf, Kitty Chambliss, and a host of other interesting folks collected for an afternoon and evening of enlightening discussions and exciting comedy performance atContinueContinue reading “Dr. Eli Sheff Teams Up with Curious Fox Presents for Two Days in Brooklyn”