Participate in Research on Compersion?

A colleague is conducting research on compersion. Please consider participating if you match the study criteria   Have you ever experienced joy (rather than jealousy) when your partner(s) found love with another partner, in the context of a committed, consensually nonmonogamous relationship? If you are 21 years old or over, speak English and answered yes to... Continue Reading →

New York Magazine Interviews Dr. Eli Sheff

  Candice Jalili recently interviewed me for two articles for New York Magazine: Your Complete Guide to Making An Open Relationship Work, includes advice from sex therapist Courtney Watson,   In 8 Signs a Monogamous Relationship Isn't For You, Jalili gets it almost complete right, except for number 6. Rather than jealousy, anxiety, or insecurity being "almost disloyal"... Continue Reading →

Language and Why it Matters New Psychology Today Blog

In "Polyamory, Consensual Non-Monogamy, or AltSex?"-- my newest blog on Psychology Today -- I explore the possible words for people in multiple openly conducted romantic relationships.   Image is of the phrase "Words Have Power" written in white chalk on a blackboard surrounded by gray stone.

Satisfied Coaching Client

A coaching client recently emailed me a thank you note for my assistance and gave me permission to post it here: Hello Eli, Thank you again for your time last week. You gave us more specific, relevant advice and help in just two hours than all of our other counselors put together! We would like... Continue Reading →

Dr. Eli Sheff’s 2018 Schedule (So Far)

While my schedule is still evolving, these are the events that are firmly planned so far. Please consider attending one of these events near you! Dr. Eli Sheff’s Schedule for 2018 February 11 – 14              Atlanta, GA               Lifestyle Live! Coaching Conference March 23 and 24              Austin, TX     ... Continue Reading →

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