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Dirty Chai Chats Interviews Dr. Eli Sheff on Polyamory for Young Adults
Check out Dr. Eli’s interview about polyamory among young people on Dirty Chai Chats
I-D Magazine Interviews Dr. Eli Sheff on Solo-Polyamory
Eve Upton-Clark at I-D Magazine has interviewed me a couple of times, most recently for her newest piece on solo-polyamory. You can read it here https://i-d.vice.com/en_uk/article/epxaxn/solo-polyamory
Participate in Research Polyamorous Sex, Dating, & Relationships?
Researchers from Stony Brook University are conducting a study of people in consensually non-monogamous relationships. If you participate you can choose to enter a drawing for a $50 gift card. Click HERE to participate. https://stonybrookuniversity.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_0uDXC7QXLkSkJLL
Lexi Sylver at SDC Interviews Dr. Eli Sheff
Lexi Sylver at Seek Discover Create interviewed me for her podcast — you can find our chat here https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/voice-america/sdc-presents-seek-discover-create-with-lexi-sylver/e/59121662 Image is of a split frame with a person who appears to be a smiling white woman with dark curly hair wearing black and red (on the right side of the frame) and an abstract heart …
Review of Is Monogamy Dead by Rosie Wilby

Review of Is Monogamy Dead? By Rosie Wilby
I loved this book far more than I expected to. When I saw the number of chapters I cringed inside, thinking that I was really screwed if this book sucked and I had to slog through that many pages. To my absolute delight, instead I found myself flying through the witty pages and short, pithy chapters thinking “OK, just one more. Well, one more after this one, I guess. Ok, now I really mean this is the last one for sure.”
In Is Monogamy Dead Wilby skillfully blends information from experts and her own research with achingly honest and refreshingly amusing personal experiences and insights. Smart, funny, and thought provoking, I simply loved Is Monogamy Dead. In fact, I detest reading from a screen in general and this book was so good that I was willing to read it on my laptop. As a technophobe who already spends too much time on the computer, that is quite a statement for me to be willing to read for pleasure on a device instead of a paper book. This delightful book was worth it! You can find it here. https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1786154536
Rosie Wilby is a British comic who writes about love and relationships and is the creator and host of The Breakup Monologues podcast, which is available free on iTunes and Spotify. She is on twitter @rosiewilby
Cosmopolitan Interviews Dr. Eli Sheff
Julia Pugachevsky, a sex and relationships editor at Cosmopolitan, recently interviewed me for the online magazine. You can find the resulting article at Your Everything Guide to Starting an Open Relationship. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a6121/open-relationship-tips/ Image is of a group of people at a summer cocktail party with a red wall in the background with the word Cosmopolitan …
Vogue Interviews Dr. Eli Sheff
Remy Rippon at Australian Vogue interviewed me and other experts for an interesting story on polyamory, check it out here. Image is of four white mannequin heads wearing hats and neck scarves poking out of a gray tent with a building and blue sky in the background. What is polyamory? This is what it’s really …
New York Magazine Interviews Dr. Eli Sheff
Candice Jalili recently interviewed me for two articles for New York Magazine: Your Complete Guide to Making An Open Relationship Work, includes advice from sex therapist Courtney Watson, In 8 Signs a Monogamous Relationship Isn’t For You, Jalili gets it almost complete right, except for number 6. Rather than jealousy, anxiety, or insecurity being “almost disloyal” …
Dating Safety for Heterosexuals: Guest Post from Sam Romero
Sam Romero, a guest poster, writes on dating safely: Date Safety 101: How To Keep Yourself Safe On Your First Date With Someone New of a Different Gender As exhilarating as a first date can be with an attractive guy or girl, it’s also a time where you should exercise caution and common sense. All …