My newest blog on Psychology Today explores some of the reasons people leave purity culture behind, and some of the outcomes they experience when they reject Evangelical expectations. Shout out to Mx. Tessi Muskrat for their awesome research on this topic! https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/202507/rejecting-sexual-shame-from-purity-culture #Shame #gender #relationship #Religions #purityculture #personalgrowth #NewBeginnings #healing
Category Archives: Polyamory
Participate in UC Davis Polyamory Study
Rose Bern at the University of California, Davis, is conducting a study of wellbeing in polyamorous relationships. If you are interested in participating, read on to find out more about Bern’s research! ************************************************************************************************* We’re recruiting people in a polyamorous relationship with at least two partners to learn about their relationship well-being. We would love theirContinueContinue reading “Participate in UC Davis Polyamory Study”
Two Events for OPEN’s Week of Visibility
Sheff Consulting is co-hosting two events for OPEN’s Week of Visibility coming in July 7 – 13 2025. On July 9 Sheff Consulting is collaborating with Melanie Moseley from Hive Love to sponsor a picnic in Overlook Park, Portland Oregon. We meet at 5 pm in the park for a potluck picnic, socializing, games, prizes,ContinueContinue reading “Two Events for OPEN’s Week of Visibility”
Exploring Polyamory: The Future of Family Dynamics
Recently Sigourney Norman at Afropunk interviewed me about polyamorous families and the future of family formations. Check it out here https://afropunk.com/2025/05/polyamory-modern-love-family-dynamics
Understanding the Legal Challenges of Non-Monogamous Relationships
My newest blog post on Psychology Today examines the three most common legal challenges facing consensually nonmonogamous relationships.
The Perfect Storm in Polyamorous Relationships
A pattern that can swamp polyamorous relationships emerged in the data of the Longitudinal Polyamorous Family Study, and Dr. Eli’s newest blog on Psychology Today explores the Perfect Storm pattern.
Understanding Multiplicity and Exclusivity in Relationships
Sally with Inner Inquiry Podcast recently interviewed Dr. Eli Sheff about polyamorous relationships, multiplicity, and exclusivity. https://youtu.be/cZgjp719Sbc?si=7rajoTb_1ygCwVC-
Is Monogamy Dead? Insights from Dr. Eli on Dr. Phil’s New Show
https://www.meritstreetmedia.com/show/dr-phil-primetime/is-monogamy-dead Dr. Phil has launched Merit Street Media, a new network that hosts a range of shows including the Dr. Phil Show. Earlier this fall he interviewed me for the episode “Is Monogamy Dead?” You can find the episode here
Participate in Online Research on Relationship Identities at UCSC?
Dan Cupolsky is a PhD student conducting research on relationships and identities who is seeking participants in an online study.
Attend Polytopia to see Dr. Eli’s Presentation on Positive Polyamorous Parenting August 23 – 25
I am thrilled to be presenting at Polytopia August 24 in Portland Oregon! Polytopia is a weekend of fun, socializing, and learning hosted by Sex Positive Portland. You can find more information and tickets here https://www.sexpositiveportland.org/polytopia-2024 Hope to see you there!