Understanding Consensual Non-Consent in BDSM

My most recent blog on Psychology Today explores the #bdsm practice of #ConsensualNonConsent. Should out to Debby Herbenick and their awesome research on #CNC, as well as the fantastic information on #consent from the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) who advocate for #ExplicitandPriorPermission. Image: Two people who appear to be women in lingere facingContinueContinue reading “Understanding Consensual Non-Consent in BDSM”

Sexuality Scholars Virtual Symposium 2024: Presenting Research and Hosting Events

Join Dr. Eli Sheff for the Sexualities Scholars Virtual Symposium September 26 – 28 for her presentation on ethics and the best interests of children standards, as well as the two events she is hosting: a lunch room and a topical speed networking room for Family Studies

We Love Consent at DanceSafe Offers Consent Resources

The wonderful folks with the We Love Consent team at Dancesafe gave me permission to post their excellent consent resources on this site. Now you, lucky readers, have access to their awesome content! You can find out more about their programs at https://dancesafe.org/ and the We Love Consent program at https://dancesafe.org/weloveconsent/ wlc_print_you-fucked-up_24x36_proof (1) (1)Download WLC_Print_Consent-Checklist_24x36_proofContinueContinue reading “We Love Consent at DanceSafe Offers Consent Resources”

How to Manage Sexual Regret? New Blog from Dr. Eli on Psychology Today

Dr. Eli’s newest blog on Psychology Today takes on the challenge of sexual regret when it was not a consent violation but you still feel weird about it.

BDSM & Law Panel for SSSS with Dr. Eli Sheff

Image: Logo for the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality in blue against a white background, four Ss stacked in a set of four (two on top and two on the bottom) inside a square blue box On Thursday August 15, 2024 at 9 am Pacific time/Noon Eastern I will present my work onContinueContinue reading “BDSM & Law Panel for SSSS with Dr. Eli Sheff”

Dr. Eli Offers Support Group and Continuing Education

Check out the exciting educational and support opportunities from Dr. Eli Sheff this spring! These offerings are designed for people in mixed-orientation relationships involving a monogamous and a nonmonogamous person, and educational opportunities for therapists, counselors, and educators.

Bonding Hour with Dr. Lisa Diamond March 27

Join the online interview with Dr. Lisa Diamond, expert in women’s sexual fluidity. Dr. Diamond joins the Bonding Hour on March 27 with co-hosts Dr. Eli Sheff and Carrie Jeroslow.

Distinguishing Between BDSM and Intimate Partner Violence Continiung Education Webinar March 20

Continuing Education Workshop for counselors, therapists, educators, nurses, and kinky folks who want to learn more about the differencdes between intimate partner violence/abuse and BDSM

New Tier of Tickets Added to Tonight’s Sold Out Continuing Education Webinar on Boundary Violations

Dr. Eli’s continuing education class tonight on managing boundary violations in sexual relationships sold out so she added more tickets to the webinar that starts at 7 pm tonight Eastern US time.