How to be better in bed
Exuding sexual confidence in all the right ways can make your partner swoon even before your bodies even touch. It helps boost your libido,enhances sexual pleasures, and stimulates extended intimacy.
When you are getting hot and steamy in bed (or wherever you happen to be), it is a beautiful window to express your love and lust through passionate actions. Moreover, it helps lovers to feel secure with each other, so they can share their arousal without a care in the world.
So how to be better in bed and amp up your erotic moves and expressions for your sexual partner? Today, we will offer some fantastic tips to rev up your foreplay and lovemaking skills, making you a master of arousing escapades. Let us begin!
5 Tips to Be Better in Bed
1. Be a Visual Treat
Beauty and lust lie in the eyes of the beholder. Foreplay is more than touching each other, and also sometimes about how you feel yourself. There is more than wearing suggestive clothing. How you display your carnal desires through your actions really turns up the heat.
You can take soft steps toward your sexual partner, slowly stripping away your intimates with each step. Let them watch you pleasure yourself into a carnal frenzy, moaning out their name with each stroke between your legs.
Touching yourself in suggestive ways – running your fingers over your thighs, fondling your breasts, or sucking your fingers – are fool-proof ways to show your sexual confidence and the storms you can stir in bed.
2. Communicate Your Lusty Desires
Expressing your erotic needs in bed is a sure-shot way to enhance your and your lover’s sexual experiences. Letting your lover know what you want shows your confidence in understanding your pleasure points.
They see you guiding them to please you better and enjoy these passionate moments, which, in turn, might arouse them to try new things in bed. Being sexually confident has its perks, especially if you love enjoying yourselves and satisfying each other’s deepest erotic desires.
Let them know how they are doing, as it is a major turn-on for anyone who is pleasing you. Loud or muffled moans, heavy breathing, and complimenting their moves will make foreplay feel like a heavenly treat for everyone!
3. Know What They Want (And Don’t Want)
Some like soft, sensual, and slow erotic moves. It stirs them deeply when you pay attention to all crevices of their body, kissing, licking, and pleasing them to their heart’s content.
On the contrary, some sexual partners love to be dominated with rougher foreplay and deep thrusts, sometimes choking and spanking. Keep an eye out for these hints on what your boo likes in bed, and have them give in to their lustful desires. Consent is sexy, so be sure you have explicit permission before you do anything sexual with each other. Make exploring your desires fun with sexy talk about what you want them to do to you and vice versa. Ask your lover about their desires in a suggestive and teasing tone, arousing them with their racy imagination.
4. Talk Dirty To Them
Words can stir up the mood, make some erect and some wet with vulgar desires. So add some dirty, sultry phrases between your moans and moves, making your bedroom feel like a hot and steamy sex castle.
Sometimes describing what they are doing to you and how it arouses you can make your partner’s moves wilder, more passionate, and carnally intense.
Tell them how you love when they lick you and stroke the insides of your thighs, and ask for more in a demanding or submissive voice (depending on how you like it.) Additionally, complement their moves, and the way they make love to you.
And if they like, call them cute and sexy names to arouse them beyond measure. Soon, you will find your sexual partner craving you desperately for more.
5. Make Sex Spontaneous
Want to level up your sexual prowess? Try letting your wild side out with spontaneous acts.
Getting out of your comfort zone while hooking up can make sex and foreplay feel more adventurous, horny, and incredibly hot. So instead of your bedroom take it to the kitchen or under the shower.
Better yet, fool around with small sex toys in public, controlling and teasing each other’s cravings outdoors. Maybe take your lover out to a late-night movie, and stroke their genitalia in the dark. Their muffled panting and desperate attempts to keep your forbidden lusts hidden will make you both horny and needy in no time.
The sheer risks, of being caught, of different areas, and playfulness will amp up the sensual desires between you two.
Of course, ask their permission for public foreplay beforehand, so their comfort is not compromised. You can also do this indoors. For example, turn on a porn movie and watch together as you go down on them, or match the actors’ moves and thrusts while hooking up.
Better Sex!
Try these tips today to get better and sexier in bed. Being confident, communicative, and arousing works wonders for a healthy and sensuous sex life!
