Guest Post Phone Sex: The Sweetest Taboo You Could Explore in 2021

Phone Sex: The Sweetest Taboo You Could Explore in 2021

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Phone sex has been around for several decades, and yet culturally, we still consider aspects of it as taboo. Strangely, people continue to stigmatize a safe, healthy way to express sexuality, but that’s the reality we live in. So, let’s talk about why phone sex is taboo and the ways that you can explore phone sex in 2021. 

Phone Sex: Still Taboo

Something taboo is typically defined as a behavior that we’ve socially agreed isn’t a very good idea. Agreeing to a moral code as a culture has many upsides and protects us from numerous unwanted situations. Each culture has its definition, and Freud postulated that the only worldwide taboo is incest. Some taboos eventually become codified into law. At one time, back when our lifespans were a lot shorter, it was commonplace to marry off teenagers. Then, it became taboo to do so. Eventually, any sexual activity with someone under the age of 18 was prohibited by law. So, our taboos shape our societal behavior. 

Some taboos never become illegal, only frowned upon. Think of things like public nose-picking or flossing your teeth at a restaurant. Engaging in these activities is likely to garner some side-eye, but no law enforcement will be involved. 

Sexual taboos run the gamut. Some activities are taboo for a reason: see underage sex. But others are taboo because we are culturally uncomfortable with sexual expression. This is the corner of taboo in which phone sex resides. Phone sex between two consenting adults harms no one and can be pleasurable for anyone who engages in it. 

Why Phone Sex Is Fun

Part of the reason phone sex is so enjoyable is because it is taboo. It can be fun to feel like we’re doing something a bit naughty. So many people have been culturally conditioned to accept that sex is naughty, so feeling like you’re doing something mischievous is a gateway to turn-on for those same people. It’s the same reason that many taboos top the list of the most-viewed porn categories. People are naturally curious about what they’ve been told not to do. And phone sex is perfect for scratching this itch. 

Describing what you like sexually to a stranger on the phone is a good time for so many reasons. They don’t know you, and you don’t know them, so you can both be whoever you want. It’s masturbation with a side of escapism. Plus, it’s much more interactive than porn. When you watch porn, you pick something you like and then see other people engage in that act. With phone sex, you’re having a sexual experience with another human being and hearing them react in real-time.

Lastly, a lot of people are auditorily oriented. That means their primary mode of turn-on is through their ears, not their eyes. For them, finding someone with their ideal version of a sexy voice on the other end of the line is far preferable to watching someone take their clothes off. Even for visually stimulated people, phone sex can be a fun way to switch up their routine. 

Finding Someone Who Loves Phone Sex As Much As You Do

If you’re looking for a phone sex buddy, you must do so carefully. Find a platform that you trust and that adheres to the highest safety and security protocols. Something you’ll want to look for is that your private information—even your phone number—isn’t given to the voice on the other line. That will ensure that you don’t receive unwanted contact. Further, find a phone sex site that verifies the ages of all the users. Then, you’re ready to explore the wonderful taboo that is phone sex. 

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